You thought you were over it — and then something small pulls you right back. Drawing on projective psychology, relationship psychology and psychoanalysis, I help you see what has quietly been shaping you: childhood and family, the hurt love left behind, the patterns that keep repeating, and the block you've never been able to name.
Their expectations, comparisons and criticism became the voice in your head — and it still plays out in every relationship.
Belittled, gaslit, told you were "imagining things." Long after leaving, you still doubt your own judgement.
New person, same story. You want to know which part of you keeps choosing the same kind of pain.
Nothing specific happened, yet you feel heavy and tired. Something is stuck — you just can't name it.
However well you do, it's never enough; one comment can undo you. You're harder on yourself than on anyone else.
You know where you want to go and still can't move. What's holding you back is rarely where you think it is.
Different paths, one destination — genuinely understanding yourself, not just being comforted for an hour.
Through drawing and imagery, the subconscious speaks for itself. What you can't say shows up first in the lines you draw — the House-Tree-Person test belongs here.
Attachment styles and relational dynamics explain your reactions in love: why closeness frightens you, why you can't leave, why you're always the one who gets hurt first.
Going deeper — childhood experience, defence mechanisms and repetition compulsion: the parts you never notice that keep making decisions for you.
Prefer to start from a drawing? Try the House-Tree-Person test →
I won't tell you to "let it go," "be grateful," or that "time heals everything." Being seen does more than being comforted — together we trace where that repeating pattern came from, why it once protected you, and how it's holding you now.
One-to-one and fully confidential. You can cry, swear, or say nothing at all. You don't have to arrive with yourself sorted out. You'll get a written summary afterwards, and you can always come back with more.
✦ Please note: this is companioned self-exploration — not a medical diagnosis, and not a replacement for psychiatric care or clinical psychotherapy. If you're in acute crisis or having thoughts of harming yourself, please reach for professional medical help first. Beyond that, I'd be glad to walk with you.
You don't need the right words to begin. Just start — we'll take the rest slowly, together.